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Your Child Wants to Live With You — What a Texas Judge Can Actually Do About It

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This is the question I probably get asked more than any other, and it usually comes with a lot of hope attached to it. My daughter is thirteen and she wants to live with me. Doesn’t that settle it? I want to answer this carefully, because there’s a real legal mechanism here and it matters, … Read more

Modifying Child Support in Texas: The 3-Year, 20%, and $100 Triggers

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Child support modification is one of the few places in Texas family law where the legislature gave you a genuinely simple path, and hardly anybody uses it. Most people assume they have to prove a material and substantial change, they can’t figure out how to prove one, and they never file. There’s a second door, … Read more

The One-Year Rule: Why Your Modification Needs an Affidavit Under Family Code 156.102

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Here’s a scenario I see several times a year, and it never stops being painful. Somebody comes to me eight months after their order was signed. Things have gone badly at the other parent’s house, they’ve got real concerns, and they filed a modification asking to become the primary parent. And the court denied it … Read more

What Actually Counts as a “Material and Substantial Change” for Modification in Texas

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If you are trying to modify custody, possession, or child support in Texas, there is one phrase you need to get comfortable with: material and substantial change. Texas Family Code section 156.101 requires it, and I see people lose modification cases constantly because they walk into court with a story instead of evidence of an … Read more

How to Stop Frivolous Modification Filings in Your Texas Family Law Case

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If your ex keeps filing modification after modification and nothing ever actually changes except your legal bills, I want you to know there is a real tool in the Texas Family Code for that, and most pro se litigants have no idea it exists. Section 156.005 of the Family Code says that if the court … Read more

Material and Substantial Change: The Real Standard for Modifying Custody in Texas

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If you’re trying to modify custody or possession in Texas, there’s one phrase you need to understand before you ever file anything: material and substantial change in circumstances. That’s the standard under Texas Family Code Section 156.101, and it’s a much higher bar than most people expect. The Case That Explains Why “Things Are Different … Read more

Filing for Modification in Texas: What “Material and Substantial Change” Really Means

To modify a Texas family law order, you must prove a material and substantial change in circumstances. Learn what that standard really means, what qualifies, and how to build your modification case the right way.

The Book Every Texas Pro Se Litigant Needs — And Why I Wrote It

Pro Se Coach Book - Texas Family Law Self-Representation Guide by Ben Schooley

Discover the only comprehensive guide written specifically for Texas pro se family law litigants. Learn how to file, strategize, and win your divorce, custody, or enforcement case — with motion templates included. By Ben Schooley, Pro Se Coach.

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